I’m a procrastinator. I don’t mean to be. It just seems like so many things come up that the things I know I should be doing get pushed off until the very last minute, and that’s why the holidays can lead to a lot of stress for me.

Because I have a huge family, which includes four sisters and their significant others, my husband and child, six nieces and nephews, parents, grandparents, cousins and in-laws who I will be shopping for, I’ve put the task off until the last possible moment. Aside from the odd present that I’ve picked up here or there, I’m basically at square one and Christmas is only seven days away.

The real Christmas anyway. The first of my family’s three Christmases will actually be held this Saturday, and while I only need to provide gifts for three people, that’s still three more than I have shopped for so far. I know there’s a way to get it all done, I’m just not sure exactly how.

In addition to all of the present shopping that has yet to be done, I also have three Christmas dinners to get ready for. Luckily, only one of those dinners will be hosted by me, but since I will be contributing to each one, I have to think of something great to bring to each, and I still have to figure out a way to remind myself I need to take the Christmas turkey out of the freezer before Christmas day.

I’m not complaining. I love the holidays, but as the work piles up, I get more and more stressed out about everything that still needs to be done, and I know I’m not alone.